Hi,

I need tips, advice something. My lover--I call him "my pet" wants to be dominated. I have certainly had the desire to get into facesitting and making someone lick my ass, and eat me for hours. I haven't had the opportunity to live out this fantasy until now.

The problem: I don't know how to be a dominatrix or mistress or whatever.

I am quite used to telling lovers what I want, even demanding it during sex. But it's not a bossy or forceful thing.

Help!!! I don't want to miss this opportunity. He's a new lover. I don't want to lose him before I've used him (haha).

Any tips, advice, books or websites you would suggest are helpful.

He's 6'3", 25 years old. A big strapping strong hunk of a man.

Just go for it, take control, and see where it goes